Want Relief?

Looking for Relief

“’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’” Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

“For fast-acting relief try slowing down.” Lily Tomlin

A heartburn commercial asked many years ago, “How do you spell relief?” Of course, they spelled the name of their product, Alka-Selzer. Their relief is temporary because the heartburn comes back without change to diet and anxiety. Most attempts at relief are temporary.

Are we looking for relief or an answer to prayer? Most of the time, when praying, I’m looking for relief. I think I need a drink to relieve the anxiety. I need to tell that selfish person to take a hike! I want relief from grief. I want relief from worry. I’m entitled to this or that because I’m worth it (another popular commercial years ago). Temporary.

 Relief–Time to let go of…

The need to control

Dwelling on the past or future

Old stories about our lives

Others’ approval

Need for certainty

Judgment of self and others

Perfection

Being 100% ready

This list is right by my computer because any time I’m anxious, worried, doubtful, or regretful, this list reminds me to let go. When I finally let go, acceptance, peace and answers come. I take this list and pray with it because it reminds me of Who is in control, gives me a future and hope, and prospers me. I hope it helps you too.

Musings

When relief is needed, faith is needed. Who is the Creator of all? With humble hands and hearts and thanks, we let go and let the Father be God. Like a child asking the parent for a hug of security, we do the same, knowing at the right time, all will be well.

Prayer

Dear Father,

You gave us Your Son so we could be made perfect and can approach You with everything and anything. Remind us who is the Creator and who is the creature. Creatures get tired, hungry, and lonely but with You, we are filled with contentment and peacefulness when we let go and let You.

Amen.

Published by Barbara Hinther

Barbara Hinther author of Meditations and Encouragement for the Caregiver of a Loved One with Dementia and What About Me, God. Time to share what she has learned and hopefully, others will know they are not alone. This too, shall pass with beautiful, yet painful, lessons. Barbara lives in a rural town in Idaho where all is community. Bless everyone in the community for their support and their never-ending let’s pitch in attitude! She worked in marketing for over 30 years and volunteered with the Idaho Youth Ranch and St. Vincent’s de Paul Thrift Store. Then her hardest job ever was caring for her husband who died from Lewy body dementia and needed her full-time care. Feelings of abandonment were constant. Life was very difficult for a while, but love, faith and hope will overcome. Let the adventure continue!

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