Emotional Intelligence

It’s a Skill

“Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life.” Proverbs 4:23 Berean

“When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures of emotion.” -Dale Carnegie

We can be rulers of the world, leaders of a community or corporation, have many degrees from Ivy League universities, or heads of households, but without emotional intelligence, we won’t achieve much. An abundant life will escape us. We see examples of this every day.

I was listening to a pastor describe emotional intelligence, a powerful means for success in work and life. Emotional intelligence creates a Prosperous Soul—a leader, visionary and abundance, for ourselves and others.

Self-awareness.  Without this, all the rest is moot—the “good” and the “bad.”

Personal responsibility. Responsibility is a gift from God. I think of the three servants and the rich master who leaves them with talents to invest for him.  Jesus commanded us to seek and save the lost—tremendous responsibility and investment. He commands us to do this. There are many ways to reach the lost, but who you are says much.

Self-motivation. Passion can’t do it all. There will be days when getting out of bed is all we can do, but we do it. Going to counseling or seeking support is painful. Walking away from no-win situations, being truthful and strong amid controversy, and praying without editing ourselves are healthy responses. We are diligent.

Which leads to… Empathy. Trust. Respect. For ourselves and others. (Proverbs 4:23 NASB) “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.”

Musings

Emotional intelligence means we can “read the room,” It’s a skill. It’s a necessary skill for success in relationships, careers and living. Emotional intelligence is something that requires work, prayer, patience and study. Jesus was and is the perfect example. His encounters with the poor, sick, fearful, and even the political were stunning in their accuracy, resolve, affection and instruction. It’s a lifetime project with loving results for ourselves and others. It heals.

Prayer

Dear Father,

Emotional intelligence is the way of love and success in Your world. We will always need the Spirit’s help and encouragement as we navigate the treacherous, suffering and evil in our days. Help us to successfully live our days with Your abundant grace and trust. Out of our hearts…

Amen.