Goody-Goodies, Phonies, Snake Oil Salesmen and other Pretenders

“If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” Galatians 6:3-4 NIV

“Talent is God-given; be humble. Fame is man-given; be grateful. Conceit is self-given; be careful.” John Wooden

New Christians may come across a bit hypocritical when they become a new Christian, but that’s young enthusiasm and thankfulness until the life lessons come to visit. And they always come to visit.  They feel and celebrate as the Prodigal Son did with his Father, which is good, but what about the other son? Do we resemble him too?

Plodding, enduring, working and a bit of martyrdom. I can tell when I’m not abiding in Christ: resentment, comparing and “what about me” is exhausting! It’s back to seeking approval, earning approval and thinking it’s in my power that produce. I have forgotten a very basic truth:

Faith is a gift. It’s all a gift! I can’t earn it; I don’t deserve it but here it is–a gift. Ephesians 2:8-10 states it plainly and it’s so we won’t boast and tumble away. We may become the other son in the Prodigal story. He earned it. He endured his brother’s failures. He worked and worked. Did he do it for the love of his Father? I think he was operating on his own power—not love. The father said, “Everything I have is yours but your brother was dead and now he is alive!” Was the son that remained with his dad alive? This son remained with the Father, he possessed all his Father had but he was not abiding with him. And he definitely did not celebrate his brother’s return to life.

And it’s a gift. The biggest, most healing, most loving gift ever! Jesus did it all and humbly gave us the gift.

Musings

It’s so upsetting sometimes when charities, politicians and other public figures declare their faith and get caught in some scandal when no one is looking. They’ve cheated on their spouse, they come across as phony, and they’ve endangered or financially hurt their communities or their employees because they forgot: it’s a gift. We must thank and abide. It could be us. Maybe it has been us.

Prayer

Dear Father,

The world always seduces us into thinking we’re something we’re not. It’s in our very hearts to be “something” famous, rich, beautiful, talented or wise. These gifts can be good things if we abide by and remember who is the Gift-Giver.

“Thank you for Your Indescribable Gift.”

Amen.

Published by Barbara Hinther

Barbara Hinther author of Meditations and Encouragement for the Caregiver of a Loved One with Dementia and What About Me, God. Time to share what she has learned and hopefully, others will know they are not alone. This too, shall pass with beautiful, yet painful, lessons. Barbara lives in a rural town in Idaho where all is community. Bless everyone in the community for their support and their never-ending let’s pitch in attitude! She worked in marketing for over 30 years and volunteered with the Idaho Youth Ranch and St. Vincent’s de Paul Thrift Store. Then her hardest job ever was caring for her husband who died from Lewy body dementia and needed her full-time care. Feelings of abandonment were constant. Life was very difficult for a while, but love, faith and hope will overcome. Let the adventure continue!

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